Saturday, October 25, 2008

♥ Yes ♥ I ♥ Do ♥

I was wearing a magnificent traditional Palestinian gown (thoob falastenee) when I entered the room; to sign the papers for kateb el ketab .... he was amazed and so did I .... come here my daughter al ma'thoon said .... and he started asking me if i agree marrying my Fiancé and other things .... Today he told me (my Fiancé) ... do u remember when u were about to sign the papers? after alma'thoon asked u, If u want to merry me ! u took a moment before saying yes ! so u were re-thinking ?? loool girl u really scared me !!!
really i did ? i was just shocked and shy .... every body was looking at me ....

Honestly i just wanted to look in ur eyes before I say yes ..... and I am glad i did ..... because I saw the warmth and love that I've always been looking for ...... Yes I do want to spend my life with U

we did kateb elketab in our house 17/10 around 10 am i can't say I was scared or not sure ... I was really comfortable and relaxed .... well I had 8 months to think about this moment ! in that same day was my engagement party so I had to move fast to the saloon .... and there i drove my brother's wife crazy ... plz call the house and ask them about the chairs ... did they bring alknafeh ? how about the DJ ? (yaa I am always in charge of every thing) Asma plz relax we took care of everything ! just relax and be 3aroos today ! but I was just worried ... I have to do everything by my self ... eventually i let my self to be taking care of ... and this is what he made me feel .... and it's really a nice feeling ...


In my party I don't know why I was laughing but stressed the whole time and just can't imagine how I sat and every body stare at me ... this is when my best friends were very close to me keeping me calm and just making me laugh I am blessed to have them around although I really wanted my best friend ever Yara to be around allah ywafe2haa ... my cousins were around me all the time also but it was hard not having all my brothers and sisters ..... they were all calling daily ..... my sis Enas with her joyful voice .... my other sis Ansam was smsing me every day .... so what did u do today and where did u go ....... she once said do u remember when u wanted to be with ur friend badly !! in her wedding !! ... well this is nothing compared to what I feel ... simply i couldn't complete my phone call with her i couldn't stop crying ..... My sister Arwa was the one who helped me in each step .... well they would have come but I kept everything in the house until Monday which is 4 days before our kateb ktab and the party ....... i just wanted everything to be like what I want and it was .....

I have so many details to tell but simply every thing happened so fast not that we knew each other in short time ! I am happy to say we knew each other well and really love each other, this is all what i always want ... to merry someone I love not waiting to fall in love after marrying someone I don't know If I will ever love him or not ......


for the wedding in sha2 allah it will be in summer I guess ! after we r done with the immigration papers and all my family be in Amman .... yaa I will be moving to Florida .... a big change for me and for every body around ... they r all happy for me but still don't get the Idea that there will be no more SimSim in the family house especially my 8 years old niece Rama who was tearing while dancing with me ..... big change i hope i will manage it easily .....


Diana sweetie thanx for ur lovely post it was so sweet of u .... ur sms was amazing also I felt like dancing :D teslamelee yaa 3asal :hug:

37 comments:

Jood said...

mabroooooooooooooooooook :hug:
tethanee ya rab :yai:

Dead Man Walking said...

akheeran ra7 nekhlas menak :D

alf mabrook (f)

عـلا - من غـزة said...

wooooooow Asma :D

Alf Alf Mabroook ...

all the things u mentioned is soooo lovely

wearing a thoob .. answering el ma2thoon's question .. elknafah :D .. and also remembering your loved and missed ones ..

inshalla you have the great life that you deserve .. with the person who loves you .. as long as you love each other i'm sure it will be just a great adventure ..

Salamat :D

SimSim said...

Jood: thaanx sweetie 3o2balek :hug:

3ammar: weeen te5las mennneee :P allah ybarek feek abu kareem :)

3ola: allah ybarek fekeee I am glad u loved all the details I was affraid that it's boring :D but I love to remember everything ... thanx sweetie ... thank u soo much

ĐàŋdŎöŅёH said...

alf mabrook simsim , seriously when i read or see a jaha badani bi2ash3er donno why .. :)
inshallah allah ye3idkom w yehaneekom ya rub ..
take care..

SimSim said...

Dandoneeh: 3o2baal maa tshofee jahtek yaa 3asal :hug:

Qabbani said...

مبارك :)

welcome to the club :D

Qabbani said...

Oh yeah when al ma2thon catch my hand and put it in my uncle hand's and ask me to repeat Qabelto

kont 3am barjof :D

its HEAVY methaq wallah , but it change my whole life :)

Allah yej3al rezGtek 3aleh sahleh o mhawaneh ya rab :)

o yes3edcom O yetamemlcom 3ala 5er :)

take care of each other :-p

vagueraz said...

Asoom Alf mabroooooooooooooook :)
bjad wish You all the best :)
I enjoyed reading the post , how you describe things ,,, :) ....

Alf mabrook w tethannooo enshalla :) ..

Princess N said...

Congratulations.. wishing you all the best..

SimSim said...

Qabbani: yeslamoo 3an jaad do3a2ak kteer 7eloo w allah ywafe2naa ajma3een ... i loved what al ma2thoon was saying and how we should take a good care of each other ... allah ywaafe2 el jamee3 ... thanx again

SimSim said...

Razan: thaaanx wallahee ennek 3asal :hug: w i am glad u liked the post ... ma3 enno kteer mfassal :D

3o2balek sweetie

Princess N: thaaaanx and so do u

Diana said...

7abebti samsoomeh, can't tell you how happy I am for you. Allah ywafe2kon w yhanekon w ytamemlkon 3ala khair ya rab.
love you, mwaaah

Mnoosh said...

6yeeb mne kont a3ref ananana :P
loool mabroook simsim inshallah mwafa2a fe i5teyareek ya rab :hug: u deserve the best ;)

Wedad said...

heeeeeeeey mobaarek...
tet'hanno o tejeeekom ayyam a7la mn el ayyam el 7elweh elle marrat yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa rab :D :hug:

KJ said...

alf alf alf mabroook o 3obalnaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa :D

hehehehhee

God help him, he doesn't know what he put himself into LOL!

ahem

:D

suhad said...

7abibti simsim that was the sweetest thing i have ever read.. alf mabrook im soooooooo happy for you.. Allah yis3idkom o ytammimilkom 3a 5air xxx

SimSim said...

Diana: nanaaaa thaanx sweetie ... thanx again for ur phone call teslamelee :hug: love u 2 mwaaah

mnoosh: lool walek weneek enteee w shoo a5bareek ?!!! allah ybarek fekeee w 3o2baleek

SimSim said...

Wedad: ameeeeen walla da3weeh very nice w ajma3eeen yaa rab teslamelee sweetie :hugah kbeereeh: :D

KJ: loool ameeeeeeeeeen w don't worry he knows :D .... allah ybarek feeek

SimSim said...

suhad: 3o2balek yaa a7laa sossoo bedenyeeh ... thanx for ur call I really enjoyed talking to u ... ur voice brings joy and happiness to me ... really wish to see u and hang out with u very soooon :hug:

مياسي said...

men embare7 bedy a7kelek:
alf mabroooooooook:)
bs el net kan salamtek

3ajbtni el-jumlahe eli hey:enek ter6bti b7d t7beh mush lesa 7at7beh

tethani ya rab:)

Sha5bo6 said...

I read thousands of articles poems and books written by Palestine lovers, I can say that what you wrote about wearing that traditional Palestinian thoub is absolutely the best.

I felt for the first time that Palestine is a human being, a mother who could not attend her daughter engagement party, the daughter did not forget her mother & remembered her .

Palestine is proud of you SimSim.

Congratulations, 1000 1000 mabrok , you really deserve the best, I'm sure he is a lucky guy.

Inshalla alla yhanekom o yfazkom o ytamem 3alekom bel kher o albarak.h.

SimSim said...

مياسي: allllaaah ybareek fekee w ana bawarjekee bel net walla 3enna kaman marrat besharret :D

walla sho3oor jameel i always want to feel it and i am glad I do and also it will be with marriage not just love with no future .... thankx sweetie w 3o2balek :)

SimSim said...

sha5boo6: shoo maa 3melnaa ben'9al m2asreen fee baladna bas as u said i really want my mother land to be with me in that precious moment and also my brothers and sisters there .... ur comment is really nice and touchy ... thank u soo much and 3o2balak eza mesh mertabe6:D and u know I am the lucky one to have him ... well he is lucky also :D

thanx again :)

Errant said...

Congrats .. just passed by your blog n i liked it .. :)

SimSim said...

errant: thaaanx and glad u like my blog :)

Crimson^ said...

مبروك يا أسما والله مفاجأة حلوه كتير

الف الف الف مبروك
ياااه ما احلى هالخبر
الله يسعدكم يا رب

Crimson^ said...

oh my god you will to move to florida ?

big lose for Amman w ahel amman

SimSim said...

Osama: الله يبارك فيك ويسعدك
مش عارفة شو احكي .. كلامك مع انه بسيط بس بخليني عاجزة عن الرد ...

شفت !! خلص بدي اترك عمان بدي اياها تشتاقلي

:D

Adoosh said...

1000 1000 1000 Mabrook ya rabb :)
Allah ytammemelkom 3ala 5eir w yhanneekom 6ool el 3omor ya rabb :)

Sorry for the super late comment but i've just knew about it :(

SimSim said...

adoosh: thank u sooo much ! w 3o2balak in shaa2 allah ... and it's ok late better than never ... allah yese3dak :give:

Adoosh said...

Well, I'm already done with that :D

My Engagement took place in the same day, 17/10 :D but katb el ktab was 10 days before that..

SimSim said...

adoosh: yaaay sodfeh jadd 7elweh :D ... alf mabrook w allah yhanekom w yes3edkom

Batoul A. said...

how come I missed this?!?!?!? *mad at self* I am sooooooooooooooooooooooo happy for you! ALF ALF ALF mabrouk.

OMG summer + FL, be ready to feel really hot lol. BUT its a lovely place to live really... Amazing view ALL the time and going to the beach is always romantic :D

And I'll definitely meet up with you one day for coffee lool. yallah ta3aaaaaaliii :D

*boseh yameen boseh shmal* so excited for you ya benet :D

SimSim said...

batoul: allah ybarek fekeee

yaaa i know it's hot and i hate hot weather but he keeps telling me how nice/safe and beautiful place it is and about the beaches and fishing i am really excited to move there ...

thank u soo much and yes honey i'll be counting on that; coffee and ice cream kaman :D

maroo said...

first of all MABROOOOOOK even though i dont know u ,, but my tears where moving here and there in y eyes while i was reading ,,, maybe coz thats 100% what i am dreaming 2 happen with me !!

alf mabrook .. im soo glad i had the chance to pass by yr blog and read it (accidentally) lool
:)

SimSim said...

maroo: i am soo happy to see u in my blog even thu i don't know u :D but ur comment is soo sweet and believe me if u want something soo bad it will happened to u in sha2 allah :) ... allah ybarek fekee w 3o2balek ....